For people with addictions or knows
someone that does.
You can now find help with the links below.
If you know of a site that is not listed or any support groups on or off line,
please email me at
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Sex Addictions
1. Porn Free - What is a sex addict? A sex addict is a person who is unable to stop his/her compulsions toward masturbation, pornography, voyeurism, lust, illicit sex, molestation, fetishes, phone sex, chat rooms, romance novels or any other sexually related activity. If you think you are addicted or know someone who is, please know that there is hope for freedom from sex addiction.
2. Fires of Darkness Ministries Fires of Darkness was birthed nearly ten years after Tom Buford overcame addictions to sex, homosexuality, pornography, gambling, and more. Having been to the bottom of the pornography pit, Tom knows the sense of hopelessness, fear and pain the addicted feels. "Our mission is to instill hope in you...hope that pornography addiction can be overcome and that it does not have to destroy your families. Whether you are the person who is addicted to pornography or the spouse of a pornography addict, positive change is possible."
3. Harvest USA This is a ministry of truth and love to those affected by pornography and homosexuality. It exists to bring the clarity of God's Word and the power of Jesus Christ to bear on the issues of homosexuality, pornography, and other sexual addictions. We do this by 1) equipping men and women who wish to be free from these struggles, 2) providing spiritual support to families and friends affected by these issues, and 3) educating church leadership and laity relating to these critical issues in our day.
4. Mastering Life Ministries is an interdenominational, non-profit Christian ministry. It exists in order to target areas of life where people are caught and deceived into unhealthy, dysfunctional lifestyles that separate them from the power and blessing of God, and to equip the Church to minister to such people. Our primary focus is sexual sin and brokenness, and related issues such as intimacy with the Father, performance orientation, anger management, etc. The tools of our ministry include film, television, and radio as well as seminars and publications that communicate the truth of Jesus Christ.
5. Battle Plan Ministry Located in the Memphis, TN, Battle Plan Ministry (BPM) provides a ministry of restoration and discipleship for men who have become ensnared in habitual sexual sin as well as an atmosphere for growth where any man can learn to do battle with the enemy. BPM is headed by Dr. Bill Berry, a former sex addict now helping sex addicts walk to freedom in Christ. BPM utilizes a great resource document called a "Battle Plan," which is freely accessible on the internet.
6. Be Broken Ministries Jonathan & Elaine Daugherty share their personal stories of healing of sex addiction. Site offers links, resources, encouragement and info to help sex addicts and those who know them. "The purpose of this ministry is to bring the healing power of the Lord Jesus Christ into the lives of men (and women) who struggle with sexual sin. We seek first to present clearly the gospel of Christ, and that it is only through faith in Him and His Word that freedom is ever realized. Second, we strive to educate recovering addicts about their sexuality, and give them tools to set healthy sexual boundaries. Finally, we expect to equip men and women with the knowledge that comes from God’s Holy Spirit concerning the dangers of pornography, that they may rise up and usher in healing on the next generation of individuals struggling with sexual addiction."
7. New Life Ministry (NLM) is for people who have struggled with pornography and/or sexual sin. Many consider themselves to be involved in what has been called "sexual addiction." NLM assists them in recovering from the effects of their choices. Through an email and online peer counseling many have found TOTAL FREEDOM from these situations. We are different than other recovery support groups as we use the Word of God (The Holy Bible) as our measuring stick on how to respond to any situation. We believe that TOTAL FREEDOM from any addiction or bondage to sin is ONLY available through the power of The Lord Jesus Christ. We accomplish this support and guidance through peer encouragement (email) and edifying pastoral counsel. Phone communication is also available on a case by case basis.
8. Pure Life Ministries is dedicated to breaking sexual addiction through the truth of God's word and the power of the Cross of Jesus Christ by changing lives from the inside, helping hurting wives and equipping church leaders. PLM has 3 programs designed to help people involved in sexual addiction (see Overcomers at Home Program, Live-in Program, Helps Ministries).
9. Settingcaptivesfree.com This ministry offers several internet courses for freedom from sex addiction. Each is tailored to specific needs and provides biblical teaching and daily accountability in an interactive format with trained mentors. Setting Captives Free also hosts conferences for pastors and is actively helping churches minister to sex addicts. God is using this ministry to help many people break addiction! Their mission statement is "Setting Captives Free exists to offer Christ-centered hope and freedom to those in the grip of sin through accountability to bible-based truth resulting in the true enjoyment of life in and for the glory of God."
10. Christian Wives of Addicts: Started by Mary, this "E-group"/discussion board offers Christian encouragement and support to wives of addicts (porn, alcohol, abuse). The board is not intended to take the place of a counselor, but simply is a 'safe haven' for those wives who just need a place to come and share with those who are going through similar situations. This board is used to glorify God.
11. Esther Ministries provides help for women in relationships with sexually addicted men. We offer Christ-centered help to women who are suffering from the devastating effects of sexual addiction. A sexual addict's wife is often hurt and confused. You can come to understand two basic truths about your husband's addiction: 1) the addiction is not your fault, and 2) his addiction impacts the entire family. We want you to know that you can get help for yourself, even if he is not ready to change. Through our intensive workshops, counseling, and support from other women, you can find strength, encouragement, hope and healing for yourself and your family.
12. Pure Marriage Ministries is devoted to helping couples whose marriages have been effected by pornography. Please join us in our goal to redeem God's standards for us! PMM was started by Mary, the wife of a recovering porn addict. Her site offers prayer, encouragement and support to wives of sex addicts.
13. Enough Is Enough - A special report to provide an up-to-date overview of the evidence of harm. Read the evidence, and decide for yourself - is pornography "just harmless fun?"
Books and other Resources
At the Altar of Sexual Idolatry by Steve Gallagher - "This work is a thorough and penetrating examination of sexual sin. It draws back the curtain and exposes the inner workings of sexual sin in the heart, ultimately pointing the reader to the power of the Holy Spirit as the answer to his problem. Steve Gallagher is not presenting theories or opinions, but the biblical answers that have worked in his own life and in the lives of hundreds of men he has personally disciple since 1986."
A Way of Escape Freedom of Sexual Strongholds by Neil Anderson - "Talking about sex is never easy...but while we are silent, Satan takes aim to destroy lives. We've all faced sexual struggles at one time or another. For those who feel caught by unwanted thoughts, compulsive habits, or a painful past, A Way of Escape provides concrete steps to overcome the bondage of sexual strongholds and win the battle for your mind. This is for either new Christians, or mature ones, for teens and adults Specific Topics: Overcoming unwanted sexual thoughts, and compulsive habits Theological slant: evangelical"
Breaking Free by Russell Willingham - This book was recommended by David Foster, of Mastering Life Ministries. "Russell Willingham's Breaking Free is a compelling and insightful work that seems intended primarily for Christian heterosexual males seeking deliverance from the habitual use of pornographic materials, sexual fantasizing, masturbation, prostitution and extra-marital affairs. It is written in a down to earth and readable style and is a good place to start for Christians who struggle with sexual addictions or for those who provide counsel and support to them."
Coming Out of Sexual Addiction by Elisabeth Freeman - Elisabeth is an award-winning author and founder of A Time to Heal Ministries. She explains the practical and biblically-based steps to walking to freedom from sex addiction. She writes from firsthand experience with sex addiction and living with a sex addict. She also includes testimonials from www.porn-free.org author and site visitors. This book is straightforward and easy to read.
Every Man's Battle: Winning the War on Sexual Purity One Victory at a Time by Stephen Arterburn and FredStoeker with Mike Yorkey (WaterBrook Press, 2000) - "From the television to the Internet, print media to videos, men are constantly faced with the assault of sensual images. It is impossible to avoid such temptations...but, thankfully, not impossible to rise above them. Shattering the perception that men are unable to control their thought lives and roving eyes, Every Man's Battle shares the stories of dozens who have escaped the trap of sexual immorality and presents a practical, detailed plan for any man who desires sexual purity-perfect for men who have fallen in the past, those who want to remain strong today, and all who want to overcome temptation in the future.
Healing Victims of Sexual Abuse by Paul Sandford - This book gives love, acceptance and healing to the victims of sexual abuse- the abused, the abuser and their families. It is an invaluable tool for those who counsel and minister to lives fractured by sexual abuse.
Taming Your Private Thoughts: The Way to Stop Runaway Thoughts By Jay Dennis & Marilyn Jeffcoat - "The devil is constantly marketing ways to get you to flirt with your dark side. But the thought war is a winnable war; it just won't be won through the methods you're probably used to. Trying harder to conquer your thoughts will only leave you frustrated. Positive thinking isn't the answer. So what is the answer. Taming Your Private Thoughts shows you what the Bible says about tuning out the hype of sin's pitchman. You really can prevent lustful, bitter, doubtful, and addictive thoughts from lodging in your mind and blowing up in your face. Jay Dennis and Marilyn Jeffcoat don't just talk theory - they give you the real goods on how to S.T.O.P."
She Has a Secret: Understanding Female Sexual addiction by Dr. Doug Weiss - Twenty-four recovering female sex addicts share their stories of addiction, consequences and their recovery. This book is the most current book in the field of sex addiction for women and is packed with new statistics to further our understanding of female sexual addiction. This is a must read for any woman struggling in this addiction as well as for professionals in this field.
Breaking Free by Beth Moore - Regarding this book, Lifeway.com says "What has a "strong hold" on your life? Breaking Free: Making Liberty in Christ a Reality in Life is a personal journey to help you identify and remove spiritual obstacles and enjoy the abundant life promised every believer. You'll discover several parallels between the captive Israelites and today's believers. Breaking Free explores five benefits of our relationship with God and five obstacles that hinder that relationship."
Homosexuality: Can It Be Healed? by Dr. Francis MacNutt - Dr. MacNutt provides a valuable service for those wondering where to begin in assessing the differing viewpoints on homosexuality. In concisely written chapters, Francis explains the problems of the homosexual point of view and the traditional moral position. Writing from many years of healing experience, he explores the often-ignored possibility of transforming a homosexual's sexual orientation through prayer. His experience has been that homosexuality can be transformed through prayer. Francis combines an understanding of the complex nature of human personality together with the gracious goodness of a loving God. He also discusses the possible causes of homosexual attraction, including discussion on the "gay gene" idea. This book is available direct from Christian Healing Ministries at 904-765-3332 or visit their website for more info.